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Now, that\’s love. In reply to - Hussy posted an update Stop the presses, I’m in shock. I came home from work to discover that my husband had taken it upon himself to refill the hand soap dispenser in...
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If I put my hand up, I\’m afraid someone will think I am volunteering for something… In reply to - Becky posted an update Anyone just want to put your hands up and ask why?! I am so exhausted! sigh
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That is really a great idea. In reply to - Heidi posted an update in the group Gardening I haven’t had time to garden, and in fact, abandoned the garden about two years ago when my mom came to need...
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Today\’s question. How do you learn how to let go without emotionally detaching?
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Jean. The love and comfort you offered to your friend helped her to move on with peace. I am very sorry for your loss. In reply to - Jean wrote a new post, At Peace My friend passed away today around 3...
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Obstacle blocking path? I’ll go around… In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, In Six Words, What’s Your Story of Tenacity? You don’t give up. Maybe you feel you can’t give up. Regardless, you stick it...
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What a blessing you are to not only your friend but to her family. As Denise said, thank you for allowing us to wait with you. <3 In reply to - Jean wrote a new post, Seven Days Sunday Last Sunday,...
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Making peace with unwise choices in my past. Also, what was once important no longer is…i.e. a change in priorities. In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, Tell Us: What’s Been Your Biggest Surprise?...
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I think it speaks to the largeness of our hearts when we can hold happiness and sadness at the same time…that there is room for all of it. Thank you for sharing. In reply to - Denise wrote a new post,...
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I am not unfamiliar with your situation, Colleen. You are as much a trooper as your loved one. I hope you are doing something to take care of yourself. In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, Tell Us:...
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This gives me just the reason I need to dig out all of those art supplies that have been collecting dust and create something meaningful to me! In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, Enter Your Art in...
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Thanks, Kaz! I use Warm Vanilla Sugar from Bath and Body Works on my mom’s legs in the morning, but I never made the connection with the importance of touch to help relieve anxiety. I am going to look...
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It\’s hard to have plans as a caregiver…they seem to get derailed quite easily. I hope tomorrow you can do something for yourself. In reply to - Kaz posted an update Well here we go. I got my husband...
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Hi Larry. I am pretty new to the site. I have missed your previous blogs, but it sounds like you are having to patch things together as well. I look after my Mom as well. We have experienced rehab a...
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That is so soothing. Very nice. In reply to - Pegi posted an update in the group Caregivers Create Morning
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That is good news that your mom’s numbers improved and that she will be moved to rehab. Are you familiar with POLST? It is more detailed than an advance directive. In reply to - Denise wrote a new...
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I discovered this wonderful book entitled \”The Meditative Gardener.\” It is mindfulness based and is beautifully done.
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It was just too hot in this part of California to even move this weekend. I am going to try and make it to a yoga class Tuesday morning.
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This is just so wonderful. You are a good Grandma. I needed to hear this today. Thank you. In reply to - Mar wrote a new post, A Tale of Courage My granddaughter, who just turned seven, was telling me...
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The heat broke today, bringing with it a gentle cooling breeze. Nothing lasts forever… In reply to - Heidi posted an update in the group Fit Family Caregivers It was just too hot in this part of...
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Thank you, Denise. In reply to - Heidi posted an update Today’s question. How do you learn how to let go without emotionally detaching?
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As a caregiver, I have developed a heightened sensitivity toward this and how rare these offers actually are. I have made a vow that when this caregiving journey comes to an end, I will look for...
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Two steps forward, one step back. I hope you were able to catch the doctor and that your Mom will be discharged tomorrow. In reply to - Denise posted an update @shoog I’m so sorry I couldn’t make this...
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I am so sorry. From your description, she is lacking awareness and a sensitivity to others. You are taking the high road that is for sure. It’s good that you have weighed out the situation and reached...
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How comforting… I can’t imagine living with that much fear. In reply to - Jean wrote a new post, Just Need to Vent Why is it that some people feel the need to push their religion on you? Why can’t they...
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Love that! Very life affirming. In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, Next: Push, Irritate, Healing Our next three words for our Community Caregiving Journal are: Push Irritate Healing You can write...
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I am learning to be observant of the circumstances that contribute to an increase of agitation in my mom. When I feel a need to correct, I redirect. When I feel a need to push, I call on patience. When...
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Do you ever have déjà vu? Do you know what today is? Morning. Off to see the groundhog? (Quotes from Groundhog Day) In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, In Six Words, What’s the Daily Caregiving...
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Brilliant. I have been finding some good organizing ideas on Pinterest. In reply to - Mar posted an update in the group Get Organized I have seen this homemade shirt folder, and decided to make one...
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Time to buckle down, huh? Social Media certainly has it’s pros and cons. Since my social life has fallen by the wayside, it has served as a connection for me to my friends and family, which has been...
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I hope you can convince her to go to lunch. I know a few elders who don\’t like leaving home. It takes a lot of encouragement to get them out of the house. In reply to - EllysGdaughter posted an update...
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A walk in the redwoods for some respite this afternoon. Sharing the peace of nature… In reply to - Heidi posted an update in the group General
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I came across some coloring pages for adults…not only fun for caregivers but also some care recipients.
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http://www.easypeasyandfun.com/free-coloring-pages-for-adults/ In reply to - Heidi posted an update in the group Caregivers Create I came across some coloring pages for adults…not only fun for...
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http://www.coloringpagesforadult.com/index.php In reply to - Heidi posted an update in the group Caregivers Create I came across some coloring pages for adults…not only fun for caregivers but also some...
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Most excellent. I understand. In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, My $100 Summer Vacation In June, on a particularly hot afternoon, the little girl for whom I babysit looked at me with her big brown...
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Oh my gosh. What an experience that was. Thank goodness for a sense of humor! In reply to - Goldie wrote a new post, “Now, I Don’t Want to Alarm You, But…” (Reprinted from my blog Studio Foxhoven 2.)...
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I am so sorry. It is so difficult to witness these changes. In reply to - Mary posted an update in the group Dementia Care: Middle Stages Mom’s right leg swelled up badly around the knee this past...
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I think I am going to start some myself. My mom doesn’t have the dexterity to color, but I like to print them for my sister-in-law’s mom. She really enjoys them. In reply to - Heidi posted an update in...
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I loved the elephant. You should post it once it is completed. In reply to - Heidi posted an update in the group Caregivers Create I came across some coloring pages for adults…not only fun for...
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Good job! In reply to - Jenn posted an update Been busy studying for a final that I have on Thursday am. Been off of social media for a bit so I can focus. Hope all is well for everyone.
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My mom’s dementia is worsening. She is requiring more and more assistance with eating her meals. Her intake of food and liquids is decreasing. She forgets to swallow at times. Quite often she becomes...
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I am so so sorry, Anita. From one caregiver to another, I am sending you love. It is all so difficult. In reply to - Denise wrote a new post, Tell Us: When Do You Feel Helpless? We want so much to help...
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I haven’t had time to garden, and in fact, abandoned the garden about two years ago when my mom came to need 24/7 care. Being in the garden and close to nature is so life affirming for me. Cycles are...
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Me, too, Lillie. I respond well to being around water or out in nature. It seems to work on all aspects of my being, i.e. not just physical. I hope you can find time to go, especially since it\’s your...
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Lists, lists, and more lists. Did I mention lists?
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